Unnecessary car parts and unnecessary breakfast

I just want you to know I disassembled an (apparently) unnecessary portion of my car with a borrowed wrench set, two multi-tools, and some expert parking over a small ditch. Dirty hands and all, I marched down the hallway to ask the owner of the borrowed wrench set if: 1. this (the one I was carrying) plastic part is necessary 2. the oily residue is important 3. I should do anything with it – like keep it or sew it back on.

The laughter was too much – the whole thing was ridiculous enough to be hilarious and so I laughed until tears came out my eyes.

I have very little time, but I wanted to do a little bit of creative writing. Since I am making the rules about what it means for me to write every day, I’m saying it’s okay to revisit pieces from days past and expand. So, we’re back to the man who skipped breakfast.

He chose a table by the window, but nestled next to a book shelf filled with classics and comics – a strange combination, he thought. Without warning, the aproned girl set herself down across from the man and asked where he was walking from.

That morning, the man skipped breakfast.
(now continued)

The firm swish of her skirt as she sat startled the man and he couldn’t process her question. Though he was seated, he couldn’t manage to remove his lint-laden hands from his pockets, which made him look rather hunched over and awkward. It also, however, appeared that he was leaning in to listen to the aproned girl’s words. Whether intentional or no, she took the hint as friendship and asked once again,
“So, where are you walking from?”

The wrinkled flannel shifted and the man brought his pale green gaze in line with the aproned girl’s greys.

“I started this morning from my apartment on East 52nd.” It occurred to the man that this was a strange question even for typical social encounters. Maybe it was its oddity that kept him seated in the cafe window, next to the bookshelf filled with classics and comics.

“Oh. I like your shirt,” she said, “My name is Amber.”

“I like my shirt too,” he fidgeted and let his eyes fall to the empty table.

“Well, are you going to order or what?”

“I think I’ll choose the ‘or what’ option,” The man said whimsically, allowing his hands to venture from their hiding places to rest on the table’s top and smooth the surfaces of the placemat.

“Okay, then.” She said it like a the phrase of a folk song, building up to, “You know what’s funny about this place?” Her eyes flitted from the flannel to the glass counters and back again, “the memories are like tippy-toes.”

The man chuckled through his nose and then something barely audible escaped resembling soft laughter. His shoulders relaxed a bit and he allowed himself to study the strange, aproned girl named Amber who had memories like tippy-toes. An untrained smile split his lips and he expected her to squirm beneath his stare. She didn’t. She caught one of the wild wisps of her hair, twisted it in her fingers and magically hid it into the auburn mass.

“Every day around 11 am, my mom would put down her pen and say, ‘Well, I could use some fresh air’ and just like that we were in golashes or sandals or winter boots (whatever the weather demanded or fit our fancy) and out the front door. Thirty minutes later we would show up here, at Café Sueno. My mom would also think and purse her lips together before ordering the orange cinnamon scone with English Breakfast tea. I would ponder in similar fashion and end up always with a peanut long john doughnut and a whipped-cream topped hot chocolate.”

The man waited for Amber to continue, picturing her and her mother sipping drinks and munching at 11:30 every day.

“I was 5 years old and I waited all morning for those words, ‘Well, I could use some fresh air.’ When they came, it took all my five-year-old strength to not burst with excitement. So, I managed to keep my composure from the waist up (or at least I thought so), but for the entire walk my excitement seeped through to my toes and there I bounced until we’d ordered and sat down at that table right over there.” Amber nodded her head toward another table right next to the window. “Tippy-toe memories.” The words were lethargic and thick and sweet rolling out.

The man’s smile was no longer awkward, but had made a kind of home between the creases of his cheeks. He thought about the rhythm of the world for this five-year-old and almost snuggled in to the sound of it.
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This is day FOUR of the Every Day in May Project, where I am writing every single day creatively.

Do you have an Every Day in May challenge?

Normal Rockwell – story of Sammy

Today’s creative writing comes by way of my friend Johanna who suggested I tell the story of a Norman Rockwell painting. I typed in Norman Rockwell, hit images, and selected the very first (which happened to be from http://www.rumorsdaily.com) and off I go.
Little Sammy Whittendorf got as far as Eagle Run Creek before he started to get blisters on his heels. He hadn’t thought about how irksome his church shoes would be on the long journey, only about how tennis shoes wouldn’t do for his entrepreneurial enterprising of the great western frontier. As he leaned down to tie the brown, slippery laces for the 23rd time, he wished he had chosen Monday comfort over Sunday style. He rose again and stretched his 7-year-old frame, lifting all his possessions and investment portfolios high into the air and then letting the red bundle linger a bit before finding its place on his shoulder.
Sammy peered over the single lane bridge at Eagle Run Creek and imagined he saw himself in the wrinkles of water. He didn’t, of course, but he imagined a reflection of a strong, important man with a red bundle for a briefcase on his way to see about some business. Sammy quickly realized he wasn’t imagining at all, but simply explaining his task for this glorious September day filled with opportunity. Enterprising was much more important than school and subtraction and Walter Leadenhower. Yes, he thought to himself, enterprising was much more important.
He leaned down and picked up a rough piece of grey gravel and weighed it in his palm. With all the strength in his enterprising spirit, he thrust it out and over the bridge and watched the fast descent. A bit disappointed with the distance, Sammy concluded decidedly there was a strong easterly wind coming in which reminded him he should get moving. He was to be at Fletcher’s Crossing before noon and the sun was already climbing high above his head.
Sammy left the bridge forgetting about blisters, although his socks were beginning to soak and would remind him later. His sights were set on the undiscovered and (Sammy was convinced) untapped resources of the expansive plain beyond the town of Harrelsville, Iowa. Though still in the formative stages, the success of his hastily laid plans was every bit as sure as his awkward, arm-swinging stride.
About five paces after crossing the bridge, Sammy heard a distant rumbling that quickly turned into a much louder roar. Gripping his red bundle, he meant to dart into the ditch for cover (many a soul could be out to steal his innovative, if not quite complete, plans), but the combination of dust and a familiar voice sent him into confusion.
The voice boomed out of a dream-cloud of smoke, “Sammy? Is that you? What in tarnation are you doing out here? We been lookin’ all over for you!”
Everything dreamlike faded and Sammy’s hopes of enterprising the great western frontier of Harrelsville with it.
“Hello, Officer Patterson,” kind of mumbled out of Sammy’s lower, protruding lip.
“You know you walked almost 2 miles from your mom and pap’s house? Now, that’s a long way, son.”
Sammy kicked at the grey gravel rocks underneath his feet, sending little dust clouds up to his chin. His red bundle had dropped and now sat beside him, a dejected pile imitated by his face.
“I only wanted to enterprise the western frontier, Officer.” He sputtered on, “I just thought to myself, ‘what good is all these numbers if I can’t go-a-enterprisin’ and makin’ somethin’ of myself?’ That’s what I thought, Officer, honest!”
Officer Patterson’s eyebrows were knit together in one long line across his forehead and his nose jutted out under his important policeman hat. He seemed to think for a moment before he said, “You know what, Sammy?”
“Well, no I don’t know, Officer Patterson,” Sammy answered after he judged the pause too long.
“I was just wonderin’ how you’d feel about some ice cream right about now. See, I’ve been feeling myself a little hungry for that rocky road flavor they got in new last week at the diner, what d’ya say?”
“Oh boy, oh boy! Officer Patterson, I thought for sure I was going to cry, but I love ice cream and now you’ve done it,” Sammy caught himself in mid-ice cream-excitement, before his smile covered his whole face, “But, Officer I still want to enterprise, is that okay?”
“Maybe we can talk about this enterprise business with Teddy Noucomb at the diner. He’s always got some good advice for… you know, enterprising, as you call it.”
“Hm,” Sammy rubbed his sweaty palms on the newly dirtied white t-shirt he wore, “I’ll think about it. You can’t talk business and enterprising with just anybody, you know.”
“Oh, I do know. I do know,” Officer Patterson said as he settled his blue hat back into place over his knitted brows and jutting-out nose.
“I s’pose I’ll go then,” Sammy said, picking up his red bundle and walking toward Officer Patterson’s cruiser. The Officer opened the passenger door and secured the truant before walking around and taking his seat on the driver’s side.
“I s’pose that’d be a good idea.”
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Every Day in May Project, Number TRES

a story about a man who skipped breakfast

(Writing prompt #92 from Creative Writing Prompts)
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He wore the night around his neck, next to his wrinkled flannel shirt. The pearly snaps were the only smooth surfaces in his entire ensemble, but the man would never notice. He claimed the comfortable treasure (not of the re-worked fashion vintage variety) when his father had passed away one year before and had worn the plaid pattern almost every day since.
His sinister hands found the depths of his denim pockets and wrestled with the gray lint as he walked. It was morning, but the days passed without the normal measures of time. There was no work or school or duties or appointments. There was only the man, the flannel, the lint, and the very intentional walking. On this morning, the man looked up from his decisive path to see an empty café. The man quickly took note of the time, gathered it was around 8 am, and then wondered why the young aproned girl inside was sweeping around empty tables.
It had been awhile since the man’s thoughts wandered from the flannel, the lint, and the walking, but something about the deserted morning destination drew him inside. Fumbling for a tight grip on the lint cloud with his right hand, he pushed the café door with his left, and entered headfirst. The man couldn’t form an answer when he heard the aproned girl ask, “Welcome, sir. Where would you like to sit?”
He stood there, looking at the floor, and the whole mess of a solitary year rushed his mind. The conversation seemed to invite him so simply out of the self-imposed shell he crawled into after his father’s passing. He drank her words like sweet honey and then managed, “I’m sorry, you said?”
“I said, welcome. Would you like a table?” This time she tilted her head to the side and leaned her broom against the wall.
He thought a smile pulled at the corner of her lips, but he hadn’t studied a human face in so long he wasn’t quite sure. He realized, as he wondered about the occasion of a smile, that the aproned girl was expecting a response to her question and he furiously rubbed the lint with his right hand and said, “Uh, yes, this one will do. Thank you.”
He chose a table by the window, but nestled next to a book shelf filled with classics and comics – a strange combination, he thought. Without warning, the aproned girl set herself down across from the man and asked where he was walking from.
That morning, the man skipped breakfast.

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What do you think? Should I continue with this for a longer story?
This is Day TWO of the Every Day in May Project.

Day 1, Every Day in May

This is the first day of May. It also marks the first full day of life for Natalie Renee Nichols, born yesterday at 3 pm by natural birth to my brother and sister-in-law (Samuel and Bethany). I love her so much already and have tried to gather all I can from my brother’s sporadic tweets and my mom’s antics on skype.
Today is also the start of a month-long endeavor, inspired by @Christinakeeps who was inspired by @frenchtoastgirl to do the thing you love every single day for the month of May.

Well, there are a lot of things that I love doing… most involve laughter, some involve people, many involve words, and a few involve canvas. The one thing I chose: writing.
I know, it doesn’t seem that ambitious (because this is already a standing goal of mine), but I’m not just going to try to write on the blog everyday in ‘dear diary’ style. In fact, I don’t even think I need to post every day to be legit about the challenge. I want to do a writing exercise every day, something challenging or new or personal.
I’m probably going to need to look up some writing prompts so I’m not just completely random. If you have any ideas, let me know. If you are doing Every Day in May as well, DO SHARE!
Okay, below is my writing for today. This is in response to two articles I recently read. The first, “Survey:72 percent evangelicals more spiritual than religious” appeared in USA Today based on research by Lifeway. The second, “Separate truths,” was written by a religion professor at Boston University and appeared on Boston.com.
Read the articles and then see my thoughts here in poem form.
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How Deep the Depths

How faint the fool who treads the way
and tarries about; runs blind to the fray.

How heavy the heart, hardened by years
of abuse and betrayal and manmade fears.

How sad the sigh learned by repetition –
disappointment, abandonment and man’s wild volition.

How complete the chasm built with words great;
explanations attempt to determine eternal fate.

How stuffed the souls with semantics and speeches
and tolerant voices crowding out holidays at beaches.

How lost the lonely, desperate to find
a rhyme or a reason to be sanctified.

How dead is this end, and reason to fight
with an honest confession, broken and contrite.

How firm the foundation, without shame
is the cross that bears my Savior’s name.

How perfect the peace in God’s Word alone
that restores and revives a heart once of stone.

How deep the depths of this great Love, divine,
to reach through foolishness and make the faint soul alive.
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pray for baby nichols

Hello friends!
I just finished a fairly big project and I’m not as happy as I should be, but there is something to jump for joy about today…. and that is BABY NICHOLS on the way!
Please pray for my parents tonight (www.myafricansons.blogspot.com) as they travel across several states to reach my brother and sister-in-law, who are super ready to bring their daughter into the world tomorrow morning.
This baby is already loved so deeply and so well. I’m praying for strength and for energy and for joy when the family of two becomes three. 🙂
Here’s a few thoughts about it:
i’m not sure what you are thinking, little one,
but i wonder these things as i cover you with love

are you excited to enter this new world?
will you see its beauty?

what will you reach for
and toward what will you run?

will you twirl in circles and sun rays?
and will you love to dance?

how will you smile and will you love laughter?
and how will you like your chocolate?

oh, little one, i wonder these things
while i pray over you and sing

oh, little one, don’t you know, you are loved!
you are so dearly loved!
Friends, please pray! Pray for safety and for God’s blessing over the delivery tomorrow!

Wednesday Web Suggestions

1) Have you heard of Mark Driscoll?
He rocks. He’s to the Left of the Right, to the Right of the Left. And he rocks. Heard him speak at Catalyst West last week, and he was every bit as good in person as the sermons I hear online.

2) Stuff Christians Like. This is hands down my favorite blog of the year. I own his book, have met him in person, and Jon Acuff is the real deal. Or if you have a bit, or want some cubicle listening, check out this– a video of him speaking. He’s HILarious.

3) Just for fun, check this out. Somehow, beards have become a big part of the lives of some guy friends in my lives. Saw this site that one of the aforementioned bearded men posted. Hilarious! I think most youth pastors stay in the neutral area of beard trustworthiness, thankfully.

4) Every Day in May. I’m doing it. At Catalyst, I was struck by the fact that I’m a painter… who doesn’t paint. And why not? Well, to get myself back in the habit of doing what I love, I’m committing to painting every day in May. Doesn’t have to be good, doesn’t have to be big, but it has to be a painting. Follow me on twitter to hear about how its going! 🙂

5) Favorite new blog here. Happens to be my good friend and boss at Valley, and a legit guy who writes from the heart about life, youth ministry, and funny stuff. Check it out!

Hope to write more about Catalyst soon, and will definitely be keeping you in touch as far as how Every Day in May is going.
Night, friends.

Christina

something sweet

Okay, if you haven’t heard about my obsession with my family’s famed “sweet dinner” then here’s an introduction(previously: here and here and here). I wasn’t super inspired to write a blogpost tonight, but then I received an email from Focus on the Family encouraging me to write an essay about my dinner table traditions as a tribute to my mom and I thought, why not?
So, below you will find the less than 250 word essay (with cheesiness to the MAX) about how my mom served up our dinners with heaping helpings of love. 😉 The above picture is our most recent family Valentine’s day (circa 2006?), but we are missing Samuel, Bethany, and half of mom’s face.
Also, Mom: if I by chance win, they’ll be calling you because they didn’t have a space for international entries. 🙂
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Growing up on a small farm in rural Iowa, we were well accustomed to skimping. It just meant that the State Fair would be our family vacation, an understood one-gift Christmas expectation, and wearing hand-me-downs proudly.
My mother somehow managed to raise five children, complete the never-finished duties of farmwife, and (often in the midst of total chaos) do everything but skimp on such tantalizing spreads for dinner that all previous disagreements would subside after the prayer.
One meal in particular remains a favorite (apart from the charming and compulsory ‘etiquette dinners’), so much so that I’ve duplicated it in several places I’ve lived since, giving my best effort to not skimp on the love my mom spread out so lavishly.
Valentine’s Day, or Sweet Dinner as I affectionately call it, was not a day for special dates or sweethearts. Valentine’s Day at the Nichols house was about love. The wonderful, true, dependable kind of love. Mom labored all day secretly in the kitchen (which itself is a feat with our curious fingers) and produced a table resplendent with pinks, reds, and candles aglow. We all received a personal poem, heart-shaped cake with pink frosting, and red-dyed tapioca pudding. Much fuss was made about the fine china (a wedding gift), which helped display the roast beef, carrots, and sweet corn (frozen from harvest). Without fail, discussion would turn to our love for one another.
When Jesus narrowed things down, He didn’t skimp on love and my mother followed suit.
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PS: Mom, you should enter the contest too! How awesome would it be if we could have a Focus on the Family sponsored girls night! 🙂
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because we need to laugh, too

I came upon this today, thanks to Robbie Seay Band and his twittering. I think it’s worth a laugh.

Remember Cher? Well, turns out it’s not so hard to auto-tune voices… they don’t have to be singing and they’ll still sound good!

the love of a Papa

I was at Bible study the other day and we were talking about gossip. However, as many of us know, sin is all the same it just wears different names, so the topics were vibrant and varied. As is typical, I launched into an object lesson with the following analogy. And (maybe because it fell kind of flat), I’m going to write it here to convince myself it’s worthy of preserving. I have illustrated a bit more thoroughly, now that I’ve had time to stew over it.

A little boy has a tradition of grabbing his papa’s calloused hands and inviting him into his room everyday, where the boy gives a grand tour and presents the day’s creations. He shows Papa every nook and cranny – so proud of the display and the way he cleaned and prepared it for Papa’s inspection. Even though Papa has seen and knows exactly what lies behind books and under the bed, he takes genuine interest not in the presentation, but in the presenter. His eyes are fixed on his boy as the little one goes about the room pointing things out like they are brand new.
Together, they rearrange furniture and dream and hope for the colors and shapes that will enter the room in the future. He tugs Papa’s hand over to granny’s rocking chair in front of the shelves of storybooks and there they sit rocking and cherishing one another. The little boy adores his Papa and absolutely lives for the time of day when he gets to bring Papa into his own little space in the house.
On a frightful, stormy Tuesday
the little boy loses track of time. He pulls out toy after toy after book after experiment after cluttered toy and surprises himself at the havoc he can wreak on his room. The day turns to night and the boy neither wants to clean nor wants to invite his Papa in to see this mess. He closes, carefully without even a squeak to announce it, the door to his special space and walks on tippy-toes over the scattered mess.
The boy sits uncomfortably on granny’s rocking chair, unsure what will happen if night passes and Papa doesn’t come. But, all the while he sits and there is no knock and no sound on the stair.
He does not budge from granny’s chair, but moves ever so gently just to stay in motion. With night on the heels of day and morning following night’s footsteps, the little boy feels relief like a cup of warm hot chocolate. He can hear his breath now as he decides it was good to close the door.
The following day
the little boy slips from the room without sound and meets his Papa downstairs and watches him drink coffee and read the paper. He expects something, anything, to recognize the absent invitation. But, his eggs and toast smell like breakfast and the orange juice means the day will roll on, like any other. He wears relief like a blanket and even mumbles the everyday greeting, “Mornin’, Papa” in the direction of Papa’s breakfast chair.
The days and the weeks pass
with the same routine. The little boy slips out in the morning, after a night on granny’s rocker, gently swaying to the sound of his breath. The little boy’s eyes are dark with fatigue, staring at the bright sunshine in his orange juice. Relief has become a best and only friend. He takes it when he leaves the house for security and drags it back up the stairs when he returns to close the door and look at the mess inside his special space.
He still sees Papa around the house, but speaking to him doesn’t seem right. He clings to his blanket and wonders why he doesn’t feel comforted. It hurts to see Papa sitting so close and to remember the times of cherishing one another. The blanket he carries feels more like shame than relief.
One day
arrives much like the frightful, stormy Tuesday so long ago. The little boy sees the rain and the crackle in the sky and remembers how dark his days have been. He looks about the room, surveying the strangled scene. Without warning, the boy (not so little) stuffs the blanket underneath the bed very, very far to the corner by the wall.
He opens the door just a little at first, and then the whole way. He walks tippy-toes (because his feet now know this walk very well) to the stairs and down. He finds Papa in the expected place, at the window with his spectacles dangling on his right hand and admiring the horizon. When Papa turns, the boy can not look at him. He only takes Papa’s calloused hand and with his head down leads him up the stairs and, without hesitation, into his room.
No words escape the boy’s mouth, just the loud breathing from all the months of time alone. He invites Papa in, head bent low, and then begins to sob. He cries and cries and says something about sorry with his hands covering his face, but the word gets all jumbled before it forms on his lips.
Papa takes him by the hand and examines every piece of brokenness strewn haphazardly about the room. Papa does not make any mention about particular toys or experiments or books or clothing, only helps the boy pick up each piece. The boy feels the blanket is over him again, though he thought he hid it. With each piece and every new mess, the boy feels a new pain.
The boy’s exhaustion takes over and his tears are all worn out as they pick up the last pieces. He didn’t mean to, but he is still clutching his Papa’s hand tight. This time, Papa leads him over to granny’s rocker. The boy cuddles in, covered by a new blanket and he sleeps. The dark eyes sleep and sleep and sleep and sleep.
When the boy wakes,
though he knows not for how long he slept, he lifts his eyes ever-so-slightly to recognize the scruff of Papa’s whiskers close to his forehead. The boy cannot summon the words, but Papa asks if they can talk and share like old times and the boy says, “Oh, yes! Papa, yes!” with all the joy of rest.
The boy slowly gathers speed and lets the words fumble out from his rusty lips. He feels different this time, talking to his Papa. He remembers the terrible work before his rest. He remembers Papa’s silent patience. He remembers that Papa has seen everything. The boy remembers the blanket he stashed under the bed, by the wall, and makes motion to find it. But Papa’s arms are reassuring and the boy knows the blanket is gone too.
Papa loves the boy.
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