Home is not where I get chased to or chased from because home is chasing me. I know because it chased me across these five calendar days, begging for me to abide.
It had a little bit to do with the anxiety of job applications and a little bit to do with odd working hours and a little bit to do with prioritizing phone conversations. But, I can tell you it had everything to do with my heart being homesick.
I met a friend for a near-sunrise breakfast this week and I asked about the past weekend with her parents. She had one of those contented smiles on her face – the ones we wear when words won’t suffice – and she said, “Good. It was just so good.” And I knew just what she meant.
Home is that feeling you get when you are abiding under someone else’s roof.
But my parents’ home was not chasing me this week (although it is a wonderful place to abide – a place I don’t have to check the mail or arrange a social calendar or clear the dust mites from the corners of the closets). And to be honest, the “home feeling” has a time limit when it’s confined to a location.
I’ve called a lot of places home. After 6 months in Des Moines, “home” definitely describes my little street and the corner meat store and the running path to Gray’s Lake. I don’t have a hard time settling into new homes or missing them dearly when I uproot and transplant, but none of them were chasing me this week either. Because there is a limit to our earthly contentedness, an impenetrable obstacle to our earthly abiding even in the most home-ly of places.
This week the home that chased me was the one from John 15 and Psalm 23:6 and Exodus 36:4. It caught up with me mid-morning when I realized the ache in my gut wasn’t heartburn or indigestion or hormones. My heart missed home.
When the rain started to fall in the park, it struck me all of a sudden that my sloppy schedule and mishandled time management had cost me precious time with my Savior. I was doing things, some good and some just things, and somehow my silly feet had wandered from my true home.
I skipped my morning devotions.
I prayed mostly in transit.
I laughed and moped and chatted and filled all the space of the day. And then, I shook away the nudge to be still. I drank more coffee and went on longer rollerblading runs. I scribbled notes and made lists. I pushed down the prick of conviction and today it pushed back.
When I read this devotion today from Solid Joys, I remembered why it is good to be at home with the Lord, abiding in His presence. I remembered why my Savior’s shelter is the best place to abide. Because home is not where you run to when your vagabond shoes have holes and home is not where you run from in a dry season of discontent.
Home is the forever love of the Father, who pursues us so our souls can best abide.
His is the home that never changes, never wearies, never rusts, and never tires. His is the home my heart gets sick for and the shelter that best covers my soul. His is the space where I want to abide.
Home chased me this week and caught me today. And as I abide out this Friday, His kindness is leading me to repentance.
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Oh, Care. You brought be to tears. This has been the ache of my heart for the last few months. Home. I know that He is with me now and home is in Him. why so easy to wander?? ironically i think the wandering makes me want Him and Heaven more. Maybe the older I get the more I realize we’re all on our way there and the more I can’t wait to be there permanently…with no more striving, no more anxiety. Bless you, my dear! Your words are drenched in Him. Love you much!
Thanks so much for sending this encouragement and I agree with you completely… “the older I get the more I realize we’re all on our way there and the more I can’t wait to be there permanently… with no more striving and anxiety.”
Thank you for reading and for reminding me that others might be learning similar lessons of faith! Blessings!