Every once in a while, a day like today flies in the face of the cynic.
It blows up all the pounds of paperwork proving it’s not possible.
This day is a gift and it’s not even noon.
It’s called reunification, which is a lot of syllables packed into one word that means the court says it’s okay for a family to be together again. And that’s what happened at court.
I cried a little bit and tried to shield my eyes from all the legal people who claim detached objectivity. I try to claim it sometimes too, but I have a heart that likes to trot out on my sleeve on a regular basis (I am aware I may not be in the right profession). So, I cried a little bit when I saw parents reaching for tissues and looking at me with red-rimmed eyes.
I know it’s not the end. All my co-workers and any veterans of the public welfare system will tell you: it’s not over. And I get that. I know the road is long and the battle is intense, but today I got to say the word reunification and the six syllables will be on my tongue until 8:30 pm tonight when I finally drag myself home.
Now, to pray this reunified family into reconciled reunification with a forever family. That happy day would stretch for eternity!
Today, I know that every good gift comes down from the Father of Lights and this good gift called reunification was authored by His sovereign hand. These tearful moments were in the mind of God before the world began. He is in this, even this and always this. There is not a moment that surprises Him, not one good or evil thing that prompts a plan B.
This good thing today is one of many millions of merciful good gifts that God will pour out.
Oh, this day can’t even contain them! We might feel ten raindrops in a downpour, but imagine the amount raindrops! Imagine that each raindrop is planned and counted, just like the hairs on our heads. Our Father knows all and showers down every good gift!
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One of my all time favorite moments of my job was with a family I worked with for several months. The dad in the family had worked so hard to step up and do everything he needed to do while the kid was at the shelter. The child discharged from the shelter to a foster home. I didn’t think I would ever know what happened. Six months later I saw the dad at Quiktrip. He told me that in a few hours his child would be completely reunified with him. I started weeping in Quiktrip and then we wept together and hugged. It was an unlikely place for a such a beautiful moment that I will always remember.
Kaci!! Thank you so much for sharing – this is the sweetest kind of encouragement. I’m so glad God gave you that gift of those moments in Quiktrip!