Teacher or Friend?

Today I attended the ACSI conference for Honduras schools… and though I was tired toward the end, I left with many new ideas for the classroom.

I’m not going to lie, it’s been a struggle to find ways to be interactive, yet still make it through the psychology curriculum. The longer I am here, the more I’d rather be chatting with these students over coffee instead of staring over furrowed brows at their antics.

I’m no stranger to high school teachers – my mom has been “stuck there” for 20-some years. But, I certainly never realized the struggle between maintaining order and having fun.

If there are teachers out there can give tips, please share!

I’m sorry this post is so short, but I am literally struggling to keep my eyes open.

The God of Small Things

Moving to a new country requires a certain amount of faith – some might say a great amount – but I’m finding that the faith the Lord requires is no less in the small things. In the past couple days, I’ve been blessed with a deeper understanding of the faith-filled relationship God desperately desires.

I just finished reading books by Elisabeth Eliot and Isabel Kuhn. Have you ever been in a place where you look at someone else’s faith and say, “When God was dishing out faith, why’d she get such a big helping?” To be honest, it wasn’t jealousy I felt, just a bit of resignation. Though I was reading and believing God for the faith he gave these two remarkable ladies, I was still meeting Him in the morning with sleepy eyes and a tired heart.

Well, last Sunday on the way home from church, we stopped for groceries at La Colonia (Honduran grocery chain). I ride with my church groupies Hayley and Tiffany in Tiffany’s car every Sunday. As we’re leaving, Tiffany gave her keys to Hayley to open the trunk to put our groceries away.

Everything seemed fine until the key did not come out. The only key on the ring was for the ignition and the trunk opens by a button. So, picture this: we are in the grocery parking lot, none of us are fluent in Spanish, our usual fourth (and fluent) church groupie went to the early service, and we have no idea where we are or how to tell someone to find us.

We jiggled, coaxed, consoled, lamented, brainstormed… asked two taxi-drivers and a worker for help, listened to scattered advice about oils and mechanics and directions to a place that wasn’t open on Sunday, and heard endless solicitations for rides.

Hayley called Elisabeth (fourth, fluent groupie) to try to figure out how to have someone pick us up when Elisabeth responded, “This has happened before and here’s the solution: pray and jiggle.” Hayley told Tiffany, who of course had been jiggling. And in my mind I said, I am praying!! I was already on to the backup plan: let’s call someone and figure out how to get them here so we can make a new key and tie down the trunk and go up the mountain and ….

But, Elisabeth was insistent on the phone: “Really, you need to pray and jiggle. Trust me, just pray.”

As Hayley was relaying this same information to Tiffany, she closed her eyes and was about to give a final shove when the key all but dropped into her hand.

I know this story is hard to read from your side of the computer screen, but as we screamed delight into the phone and jumped into the toasty seats, I started to find perspective in the small things.

Nothing surprises God.

No accident, death, lottery winner, winning sports team, mountain climber, or new scientific discovery surprises our Sovereign Creator. His hand is in it all.

So, when I think about the ‘huge’ faith of some of my Christian heroes, I wonder at the little tests of obedience. Maybe a mustard seed is an obedient heart – a heart that prays about keys and conversations, impulse buys and interesting flowers.

Maybe the hearts of my heroes are made up of layers upon layers of these types of prayers – prayers that invite God to be Lord over the details.

Back to School…


You know this movie?

Well, it’s about a woman in her 20s that, for an undercover story for the newspaper she works at, has to go back to High School for a few months. She has to endure trying to be cool again, finding somewhere to sit at lunch, and all the other fun stuff high school has to offer.

Well, although unlike Josie, I had a pretty great high school experience, I feel a little like her today. For I am, today, stepping back into the world of high school. Well, I’m actually just stepping back into the world of high school lunch, which is equally scary, but anyhoo. The High School youth pastor, Jon, has been visiting the freshmen school for lunch every Wednesday, and this week he invited me to join him. I love the freshmen girls I lead in my group, so I of course said I’d love to. But now the day is here and I feel like I’m a kid on my first day of school. What if they don’t think I’m cool in a school setting? What if they pretend they don’t see me for fear I’ll grab their friends and force them through the Romans road?

Anyway, all this is just so uncharted. So wish me luck. I’m dorkily trying to decide what to wear to seem less uncool as I step back into the world of freshmen.

Garage sale- More trouble than its worth?

 

Every once in awhile, my sister likes to guest blog on musings. I don’t mind because, frankly, she’s attracts way more readers than I ever will! 

So, I had a garage sale this past week. A big, honking garage sale.
A garage sale that I thought would be great fun, that turned out to be… hard!

I had been planning for months for this garage sale. NOT. I decided to do it last week on a whim. Without consulting all my tried and true friends to see if they’d be around. Yes, there were many missteps in the garage sale process… But I was just so EXCITED! About getting money in my savings account! About stregthening my emergency fund (thanks, Dave Ramsey!) About getting rid of clutter I had lying around.

Low notes:
Well, I didn’t have enough time to devote to pricing.
I didn’t get many signs around the neigborhood.
I thought I could handle it all alone.
And it wasn’t the best weekend of my life.
Lessons learned.

High notes:
My grandparents showing up, like garage sale angels, and helping me out for a few hours by re-arranging the merchandise and sweet-talking customers into buying things.
2 friends who spent hours keeping me company- Zac and Sarah- you guys are awesome!
The 140ish dollars I made- going straight to savings!
The great opportunity it was for me to meet neigbors! Kind of awkward meeting your neigbors over your used clothes, but still nice!

Next time, I’m picking a weekend my mom can help, putting lots of posters up, and paying cute elderly folks (hehe) to sweet-talk. A recipe for success 🙂

Weekly Lineup

Hello faithful friends and random readers! It hardly seems a week, but it’s going to start again whether we’re ready or not. You may have noticed last week that Christina was out of commission. I sure did! We kept missing each other… and I hate for our only communication across countries to be me badgering her about putting up a blog post. But, no worries, this week she’s back in action and you’ll find out what was holding things up.

God shows up in the small things
I guess small and large are all relative here, but either way I am amazed when God provides at exactly the right moments. Many times I find myself doubting His provision and filling my mind with back-up plans, but I’m always reminded that He is in control. Here are a few such stories…

For Sale
So, Christina had quite a week, much of it due to the neighborhood garage sale she decided to organize, completely solo, on top of her other mounting responsibilities and her new job.

Going to be aunties!!
You’ve already heard my excitement for Meg and Christina’s for Jared and Tina… there’s no way you can prepare for our excitement over our very own niece/nephew that is on the way! That’s right, our dear bro and sister-in-law are going to have a baby. I’m sure this will be the first of many posts about our prayers, hopes, and joys for our growing family!

Application to date my girls
Part of Christina’s great new gig is to disciple girls. Recently after a high school dance, her protective nature was appalled at the stories her girls told. So… she decided the next boys wanting to ask her little flock out on a date would have to go through a very intense application process.

Teacher vs. friend
I’m sure every teacher goes through the phase (and I don’t even have the technical training), where they try to find the boundary between teacher and friend. I’m finding myself in that place right now. Where I stand in front of my 10th graders and just think how much I would rather meet up with them on a Saturday then hand back a red ‘D’ on the top of their test.

That’s what we’ve got… be looking for an interview with Kathleen in the near future. And once again, if you have ideas, suggestions, questions, or if you have a random urge to be interviewed, let us know!!!

lights off

So, picture this: four girls huddled around a gas stove, roasting marshmallows on little wood skewers in an apartment completely candlelit. Tonight (and many times in the past few days) the power went out for several hours. No skype telephone calls, no internet updates, no microwave, no fridge, but a LOT of creative fun in the form of night frisbee, rummikub, and scattergories!

Tonight I realized again (as if I could forget) the insistence of competitive blood in my family. Well, I can’t really blame them – I can take full credit for arguing “rats” as farm animals and “stones” as something cold and arguing heatedly against other propositions. I think my sister-in-law put it best when she said our family can get passionate about anything… even if we’re not entirely sure or informed about said thing.

Well, all in all a good night was had. With six candles lining our dining room table, a headlamp, two flashlights, several cups of tea, and a few games we found unadulterated entertainment that I would highly recommend.

Just a note: If anyone knows or can find the OFFICIAL scattergories rules, can you please let me know!!

Fright stories… again

So, I quietly hoped moving to a different country would cure the irrational frights I frequently experience… or at least that I could start over with a new group of people who knew less about this absurdity.

Well, of course neither did I lose nor could I hide the unexplained outbursts at the sound of fireworks, a loud voice, dropped dish, or clapped hands. Within weeks of arrival, most of my co-workers and all my roommates knew I was prone to full collapse whenever startled. Still, I was holding out hope that my students would not find out.

Here are a few of the stories:
A couple weeks ago, we were outside and I was talking to a group of mischievous 10th students, when with no warning I hear “MISS NICHOLS” from behind. I immediately fall completely forward onto my knees (on the grass, thank goodness) in my skirt and heels. After feigning concern, they just roared. I knew from that point on, there was no turning back.

So, it didn’t surprise me when a couple days ago a student came up at the end of class wanting to show me a little toy. I immediately suspected foul play and asked him to shoot it first. All the kids were encouraging me and after he showed me how, I aimed at the wall and put the toy in front of him, so if any water shot back it would be in his face. But, then to my surprise a shock went through my fingertips and on the floor I went. Again with the roaring laughter.

It really is quite the endearing quality. Everyone seems very concerned as I try to get up from falling. But, it must just be too wonderful to watch me go down, because it just keeps happening:)

IN OTHER NEWS: Meg has a baby! I’ll write more on the details, but thank you for those who prayed!

When more than miles separate…

So, my best friend Meg is having a baby. Nothing prepares you for the anticipation you feel when new life is about to begin (even when it’s your best friend!). These past few weeks, Meg has been on my mind and my heart… I’m praying for all the little details – that she won’t be eating fantastic chinese when she goes into labor, that she will be wearing comfortable shoes, that she will be randomly very close to the hospital. 🙂

But, really, as often as I think of her, I praise God for the new life He is bringing into this world. Last week, I started to feel the miles of separation when I realized how long it will be until I see her and the baby. I gave my mom the go ahead signal to send the package waiting at my house, but I still wanted her to know how much she’s been on my heart. So, on her due date, all my emotions worked themselves out in a song, which I composed with the help of my roommate Heather who can play a mad guitar. We recorded the song (entitled “Today’s Your Due Date”) onto my computer and then I called and left a skype message with the recording.

If I do say so, it was a brilliant success. The lyrics may not look like much, but the tune is kind of catchy! Picture this message sung on a skype voicemail:

I woke up this morning
with one thought on my mind
you’re about to be a momma
and I’m sure the greatest kind

today is your due date
but she may not be ready
your girl’s got a big heart
I’m just prayin’ it keeps beatin’ steady

BRIDGE
this auntie can barely stand
the distance from your hand
and though I’m very far away
I know my prayers will reach you
and comfort you this day

I woke up this morning
you were on my mind
I’m sending you some Spanish love
to be right by your side

After power outages the past couple days, I just got word that we are praying for delivery tomorrow morning. Pray with me that the baby and mommy are healthy, that the doctors would have wisdom, and that Meg would rejoice in the blessing of new life! My dear kindred spirit Nicole has vowed to be my eyes and ears at the hospital – she told me she’s been carrying around a camera for a week, just in case! Oh, what blessings we have in friendships!